Why is breaking up with someone you love so hard to do?

It's been almost 2 years now since I broke up with my girlfriend and I'm still finding it hard to move on. I have all kinds of feelings for her ranging from anger to deep sadness. Please, tell me, how do I let go and move on? I feel as if my life is stuck on neutral since we broke up. Is it true that only love can break a heart, and only love can mend it again?Why is breaking up with someone you love so hard to do?
Every human being mourns in a different way...and yes, you are mourning. Not the kind of mourning you do when someone dies, but at the end of every single thing in your life, be it a friendship, leaving an office, leaving school, etc. you will need time to mourn and prepare for the next stage. Some people do it quickly, some don't, what I can tell you is to be patient, I went out with a guy for five years, broke up and then, after eight months fell in love with my best friend from school and married the guy.


Letting go is difficult, and it takes time, try not to call her, remove all the pictures and stuff that reminds you of her and take one day at a time. Try doing different things from those that you did with her and visit other places; enjoy your family and friends and focus on yourself.


Many things can break a heart, but that is only if you let them; its upto you to mend it. Believe in yourself and without knowing love will find you again. good luck!Why is breaking up with someone you love so hard to do?
cuz you love them
You need to find a new and better woman to love.Good luck.you need to live your life, and start again.You can not live forever in the past.Go on,go forward in your life.Do it,good luck.
I believe that moving on is something that needs to come within a person. I know that it's hard to do after a long relationship but it needs to happen. Because u can't live your life like that just standing around you need to move forward. So my answer is that you should just stand up and declare that u have moved on and don't look back
I would get back together with her again if I have fallen deeply in love with her. This time, I'll prevent the same things from happening again.
tHAT WOULD BE a great name for a song. Breaking up is hard to do.
You answered your own question,breaking up is hard because you still DO love that person. Its hard to let go when your really love someone. Just keep yourself busy and find new friends to hang out with. Read books also for self calmness
ofcourse nothing will mend your heart except love.


i can't beleive that boys can be faithful, i hope to find someone who will remember me only one year after i die or after we breake up.
Of course its hard to move on, if she was your first love that is the hardest one of all to move on from. If shes moved on, then you must also. Take a step back and have a good hard look at things. Was the breakup really bad? Did she cheat on you? I have been single for five years after a really nasty breakup and have recently met a lovely guy whom also has been on his own for a long time. It is very awkward at times for both of us and we have agreed that we have nothing to lose but we are taking things very,very slowly. We have to make ourselves trust one another. It is very hard but I'm sure you will move on in time. Hope I have been a help.
the best thing to do is to give your heart time to heal because love cant be rushed it comes when you least expect takes things in stride its for the best if you do and yes at first it will be hard to get over someone you love but the thing is to do things you like that wont remind you of the past you had with your ex and in order for you to heal you need to throw away everything that reminds you of her and then and only then you will be able to move on with your life yes love can break and mend a heart but you need time for yourself before you go back into another relationship take this time to reflect and correct the mistakes in the last relationship you had so you will know what to do and what not to do the next time around to let go you have to get rid of everything that reminds you of her you are going to feel things like anger and sadness because your heart is not ready to let go yet but you need the time to take for yourself and by doing things you like it will help with the process of moving and i hope the next time around that you can find someone who can love and honor and give you the respect you deserve because you seem like a compassionate person and i hope you feel better everything is going to work out for you all you need is time and i wish you the best of luck
She must have been some good p-ssy!
what don't kill you makes you stronger. your only learning what you really want in a relationship.
Sometimes we have to make choices and the ones we make hurt sometimes, but in the long run it is for the better when we make the right decisions so that we can be happier with our lives and that makes i better to make her happier too!
HOW COME YOU BROKE UP IN THE FIRST PLACE? DO YOU THINK SHE IS FEELING THE SAME WAY YOU ARE FEELING?
Nobody told u to break up with her...think about does she still loves u..do u think she already moved on..
cuz .. your weak