Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do you break up with someone you love?

I know he is no good for me!! i know intellectually! instinctively!, common sensely, but my emotions and good memories of him and his good qualities keep me making a fool of myself and going back to him. I am angry at myself for being so weak! help! thanksHow do you break up with someone you love?
This one is easy - you just decide and break up. What would you do if you don't love somebody, you know he is no good for you, you know intellectually!, instinctively!, common sensely all that, but they will never leave you and only came to your life to hurt you the baddest?How do you break up with someone you love?
Ive done this before it best to do it if you know its not going to work.
one day, u will b no good anymore for him too !
tell the truth and be honest - tell him asap - theres no reason to string him along
I would just b like listen we can t do this any more and dont be sitting next to me in history cause u always frontin and yur butt smells like diarear all the time i bet he gonna get the hint reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeal fast like i told simon
If you know that he is not good for you and the two of you are not a good match then you are not really in love him with. Love is mutual respect and admiration ... do you respect him (no) do you admire him (I doubt it).





You just need to let yourself accept the truth and not feel guilty for wanting someone who is a better match. Once you accept that by breaking up with him you are not doing anything wrong you will be strong enough to move on.





Good Luck and just remember that just because someone is not a match for you does not mean they are bad, it just means that they are not a match :-)
Say ';We need to talk privatly'; he'll get the picture and that makes it easier :/ srry u hav to break up with him
You need to just break up with him. Tell him exactly why you are doing so, and then distance yourself from him. Do not talk to him until you are comfortable with just being friends, and until you do not feel love for him anymore.
Do you really think he's no good for you? Or are you afraid of what other people think? If there is a draw then something is obviously worth looking into.
If you really love him, you'll love him enough to let him go.


Just remember people can change, but so can feelings. You should maybe have a break from one another, and see if you fall for anyone else.
I know that its going to hurt to let him go, but if hes no good for u, let him go. There is someone out there for u who is just right. It will be tough but what ever hurts u and u survive it, will make u stronger. Best of luck to u.
It sounds that you really know that he is not the one for you. However it seems that perhaps what is keeping you from breaking up with him is the fear of being alone.





Just think that the longer you are with this person, the more you are going to suffer. Instead right now you could be single and having a chance of meeting someone who would really make you happy.





Don't be afraid of being alone. This will allow the right man to enter your life.
Imagine, in 15 or 20 years, you have stayed in this relationship, and you have children. Your daughter, comes home with someone, and you just 'know' he's no good for your daughter, and it will end in heart ache.........What would you do?





The answer is, there is nothing you could do then. But right now, you can do what's right for you, and any kids you may ever have. You can find someone to love; someone who loves you as much as you love them. Someone who will adore your kids as much as you will.

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