I've know this girl a for while, and she seems as though she'd be a great person to date for me, both emotionally and economically [she lives close so no killing gas, etc.] so i ask her [let's call her Sarah, cuz i won't use real names on here lol] out to dinner, but she doesn't reply to any of my texts for a few days [like 3-5 days] so when i meet this other girl [let's call her Crystal], and we click a bit, I start dating Crystal. Now, soon after dating Crystal, I find that NO ONE replies to my texts, so I ask to borrow a phone and text myself, and quickly find that my cell phone had glitched and it wasn't recieving texts, so the dinner date is on. So, I've been with Crystal for about two and a half weeks now, and I tell her the situation, and i tell her that i'd like to explain this to Sarah and take her out to dinner still because i am a man of my word and would never withdraw a date after promising it. Last night was the dinner date, and it was amazing, we went to Margaritaville and the food was delicious, entertainment superb, and when we got back to my place we cuddled [yes ONLY cuddled, I'd like to stress that point] with her head on my shoulder/chestand watched random pretty youtube videos like music vids and stuff like that, and it just felt ';right';. I mean, more ';right'; than the relationship I'm in right now... I got together with Crystal the same day I met her, and although we click pretty well, i feel as though I rushed into it, and dear god i wish i had waited a few more days to find that my phone had just glitched... Sarah and I click perfectly, and what i find is sad, is that it felt more natural to be with her than it does to be with Crystal, enough to the point where i want to break up with Crystal, to be with Sarah. I don't want to hurt Crystal, I know that this will of course, all breakups hurt, but I want this to be as smooth a transition as possible... so... anyone?How to Break up with someone you love, for someone you love more?
Oh my god, ridiculous. You are most definitely not in love with either of these girls. You've only known them for such a little time. Besides people don't hook up on the first date unless they're 15. Which I'm guessing you are.
Two months from now you won't even remember these girls I bet. Grow up.
I doubt Crystal will be heartbroken for too long. Just be honest to her.How to Break up with someone you love, for someone you love more?
Breathe in, breathe out, move on.
Shut Up !!!! %26gt;:
|Dont make a stupid impulsive mistake that most men make. Wait it out a bit, date both girls, but no sex with either of them, and dont tell either one about the other. be smart, play smart, and after a few weeks more, you can decide what to do. you might eventually find out crystal is indeed better.
whatever you do, just dont have sex with any of them, so if you break it off with one, she wwont feel too used, and also never mention to crystal if you eve break up with her that you did it because of sarah, its more devastating to girls to lesrn they were dumped for another girl.
gooduck
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