How do you break up with someone you really do love????

I really love my boyfriend, but I know I have to to break it off with him. There are many issues that concern me, I know he needs me %26amp; I need him......but I know in my heart that I have to let him go. But how do I do it??????How do you break up with someone you really do love????
There's no right or wrong way. Thing is you jus have to do it. Like ripping a bandid off, just all at once and don't cave.





Just break it off (nicely) and when the feelings come rushing in like you made a big mistake, remember that you do love him, but you need to do this for you. You know its the right choice.How do you break up with someone you really do love????
It's so sad to hear that. I still can't quite grasp the ' be cruel to be kind' concept myself. For me to be in a relationship, I must really love that person and want to give him my all...





If you claim you love and need him, why not step back and see if there are anything that you could possibly work out, before you throw in the towel. It's rare you find someone you genuinely love.





If it's really for the best, follow your heart, explain your reasons as best you could. Hope that he understands. But it will hurt both you and your man... please think carefully.
Okay, you love him, but what is the reason that you want to break up?


First, you must tell him the reason, so that he will not misunderstand.
if you really love this guy it means you love everything about him - what he says what he does - everything regardless of your wants and needs.in which case how can there be any issues.





you're attention seeking - get a grip - let him down gently and give him back his freedom - but please don't talk about love.
say goodbye dont cry let it burn dont return!!!!!!!
If you love him then dont break up with him, If you are supposed to be together then you really should try and make things work with him. Sit down and have an honest talk with each other about what you both want and what issues you have. Try and make it work from there or if that does`nt work then maybe have a break from each other like a few weeks away from each other!


Good Luck and i hope it works out for you both
tough one.........I guess the issues you mentioned must be HUGE, since you are giving up a person you love immensely.





The best is to just tell him you have moved on. If you in anyway indicate that there are still feelings there, its tougher.


Good luck.





Have you tried couples counseling??
well just tell him that it is not working out and that we need to see other people and that you want to be friends with him
If it's really what you want to do, then do it and make a clean break. You will be doing both of you a favor if you do not keep going back together only to break up again. Stick to your guns. Just tell him in an honest heart to heart talk.