How can you break up with someone you love?

if you know that the best thing to do is to break up or take some time away when thing are not working out. me and my boyfriend been together for almost 2 years in the last 5 month all we do is fight and he say so manything and does thing that are not right and when i tell him how i feel he doesnt think he is doing anything wrong i know he loves me but he is just not the same person i have try to understhand him and try to work things out but there is so much i can take im not happy anymore and i know that the best thing to do is to take sometime away from each other. he has taken me for granted and i just dont know how to talk to him about it every time i try talking to him he doesnt want to because he doesnt like talking about anything and we end up fighthing. i need him to know how i feel before i leave.How can you break up with someone you love?
A break up is always difficult and when you know you're in love with the person and you care for them deeply, it makes the break-up that much more difficult to do.





I suggest before you ultimately throw in the towel, you give talking to him one last try. Say something along the lines of ';I love you, but I feel as though the last few months you haven't appreciated me as much as you did before. I'm not saying you don't love me as much, but that maybe you're just too dependent on me doing things/saying things/agreeing with you and not realizing that it's breaking us apart.';





If he begins to protest, and say how it's your fault or nothing is wrong, or he's not taking you for granted, tell him that you've given it a lot of thought and you think that a little time apart would be better for the both of you to clear your head and allow you to have some space to breathe so when you two do get back into your relationship, you're not always fighting, but will then be ready to compromise with each other and make things work.How can you break up with someone you love?
How will telling him your feelings change anything? Say what you have to say and then leave.
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u just write him a huge note on the refrigerator b4 u leave.


u cud tell him u r breaking up with him and if asks y, tell him, if he didn't he wasn't worth the trouble anyway, I'm sorry
have a little talk.


its just a matter of misunderstanding.


you dont have to break it up.


try to cool off,


in that way you could get yourself a break.


know yourself even better,


and know if you love him and if he loves you.





hmm,


in every single relationship.


you should know that there's a problem and certainly there's a solution.


ok??


give him and youtself a space.





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Just be honest and tell him that you care about him but you think you both should see other people and thats that. If he wants to know why (which he should know) you could tell him about how you think,feel and what you want. When the communication llines are cut its almost a non relationship anyhow. Communication is almost important as love. Find someone who cares and loves you. Sharing and caring is a form of love.
He already knows how you feel. Sounds like you've told him time and time again.





Now it's time to back up your words with action. You can tell him you're not happy all day long, 365, but if you don't do anything about it, if you don't SHOW him, he's going to continue on the way he is.





Good luck! ~Nikki
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You need to tell him that he needs some time because he do not want to talk, and while he is getting sometime you will not be waiting on him because your not and idiot, because you are going to be looking for som one els. so until he wanna talk the relashionship on pause. [ say it to him, but dont do it, only if he takes too long to get the picture you can do that.]
This is very difficult thing to do. First, realize that you are in control of your happiness - he's there to compliment it.





Before you make that decision - figure out what would he need to do to make you happy. What do you need to do to make yourself happy? Do you still love him? Has he told you that he loves you?





What has happened in the past 5 months that is triggering the fights?





Do some critical thinking here to get to the bottom of the issue.





One last thing: what are you looking for in letting him know how you feel before you leave? Do you want him to suffer? feel remorse? pity?
tell him thats the only way the problem will be solved
well ur right there is only so much u can take and well u need to tell him hey whats going on all you do is fight and everything is going downhill before we get to a point where i cannot stand you lets go ahead and take a break now he might tell you know please and all that bs butu stand ur groundds say no i need this break to see whats really on my mind and in my heart love is blind girl u might think he loves u but have u ever taught that maybe he wants out oo but he cannot be mad enough to do it so he is giving u reasons to do so ??? sit down think about analyase and give it to him