How do you break up with someone?

I'm 30 and have never broken up with someone, and I find myself in a year long relationship that I don't enjoy. However, I've never broken off a relationship because I generally just stop calling or, I push her to break up with me. How do you tell someone you don't love them?How do you break up with someone?
its over!How do you break up with someone?
be honest and tell them that you don't love them anymore. start by saying that you need to be honest with them and that you respect her as a person and have love for her and this is why you need to be honest with her. Tell her that honestly there is nothing that she needs to change about herself via physical or personality wise, its just that you are not in love with her, you have love for her but aren't in love with her. Tell her as lame as it may sound its not you its me (and in reality thats true right?). It will suck, no break ups are easy but at least she will have closure and feel respected enough to have you give a **** to expalin the problem and that you didn't just blow her off...women hate it when men blow them off! its the #2 thing a man could do wrong by a women number #1 is cheating. Anyway, good luck!
Not in close proximity:


-Your mother is deathly sick and you are taking a year off from work and being at her deathbed. You are not in the right head space to have a relationship right now.


-Relocated to Russia (Anywhere in Europe)


-You had a girlfriend who you thought was dead, but she came back and you promised years ago you would get married. Her father hired a private detective to track her down, and elected to not have any media coverage of her return which could traumatize her. You were the last shred of humanity in her life coming back from this horrible experience and you have to be 100 percent there for her.





In close proximity:


-Contracted a severely contagious sickness from a pathogenic virus. The three weeks you are not able to see her she will find someone else and breakup with you.


-You talked to a psychologist and he diagnosed that you are introverted and borderline sociopath who does not know what love is. For her own safety she should leave.
Well you really have to think about it, maybe talk to her and figure out why you aren't happy, you'd be surprised how much talking can do. Maybe sit her down and tell her exactly why your unhappy, and sometimes the person will be willing to change to suit your needs. And if your really sure you do not want to be with her, because love just doesn't go away, if it does then it wasn't love, then sit her down and tell her the truth. There are many ways she's going to take it, really hard, moderate then not care at all. Just give it too her easy and not rushing or anything. Just remember you don't really know how much you love a person till their gone trust me, a lot of people had made that mistake, but only some get a second chance.
Its never easy to end a relationship, even if your feelings just aren't there. i found that its best, and most respectful, to do the break up in person. you should just tell her how you feel, maybe some short simple reasons as to why, and just say that ';im sorry, but i don't feel our relationship is working out anymore';. and that you want it to end, make sure to be clear, without coming off to harsh, that its over. good luck. that sort of thing never will get easier.
Your best bet here is probably just getting caught having sex with someone else. Do you know any old flings that would be willing to shack up? If you can't find any, or don't have any, head down to your local highway underpass and find a homeless chick. You might have to pay a little bit, usually if you throw in a sandwich, it won't be over $20. Make sure your girlfriend walks in on it
You simply do it. You say nice things, point out how great she is, how she would make a decent man a good girlfriend, but that you do not feel you are the right man for her. Tell her you are not good enough for her, she deserves a man who will adore her and love her, something you do not!
After a year, i can feel your pain, just tell her the truth, you arent just feeling them anymore, that its not her. that you've just changed. Make it as mutual as possible, that if she really loves you that she'll understand. just make sure its not nasty and angry, show your confidence. you've dated her for a year, you know her and she knows you. You'll know how to say it the best way. just gotta think about her and how she would react. Just be confident in your decision. Best of Luck to you bro.
honesty is really the best way to go...dont beat around the bush or things will just get complicated and they may not get the message.





ps stay out of contact with this person for a reasonable amount of time. a year is a substantial relationship and it can be hard to walk away for both people just because you are so use to having them there. its easier for both parties to cut ties for a while.
if you don't wanna be a *** just simply sit her down and explain your feelings but if yu wanna be a asshole do it over the phone or in a txt or just start ignoring her move and change your number and everybody that you know tell them that you don't want them to tell her were you are i personally think you shouldn't be a ***
not the easiest thing to do hey! Tell her you guys have drifted apart, and its not the same for you anymore. tell her you don't have that chemistry with her. and then obviously tell her you're sorry to break up, but you don't want to miss lead her if i say it right (sorry, im Afrikaans speaking).
you say ';hey look, we have been together for about a year. Over the last month or so, ive come to find that i think we would better be suited as friends.'; etc etc. practice what you are going to say before you talk to her, cause otherwise it will sound really really bad.
tell them the truth. you aren't happy..thats ur reason you want to end it..so telling this person would be best. sneaking ur way out of it like stop talking to them or whatever would upset them and likely have harsh feelings towards you..i mean your 30 lets be adult and tell them how you feel they'd respect u more if you do.
Say only positive things about her. Don't say anything to make her feel bad about herself. Tell her that it has been great but your feelings have changed and you would like to move forward as friends. It will be difficult but it is the best way,
Just like that.





Do not push her to break up with you, it just makes things worse.





Just tell her at a appropriate time (not before work, after sex). Don't drag it out. Give her a reason. Get on with your life.
Do her a favor, tell her I don't love you anymore. Yes it will hurt. But the sooner she realizes it is really over the sooner she will be able to heal.
just tell her its over .





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WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO MAKE A WOMAN SHOUT AT YOU?


YOU MADE THE CHAIN TOO LONG
Say ';See ya B*tch';. It's the best solution or just cheat on her.


Problem solved.
you just don't break up with them.
Tell them. ';I am breaking up with you.';
push them out a window
you say ';its over.';
just explain then say ';bye for good';