we were going out 6 months and we broke up last saturday, it hurts when i knew i wanted to spend the rest of my life with this person, i helped her out by lettin her move in when she got kicked out her house, supporting her(food, new clothes,glasses,getting here hair done) and she leaves me for the club, she wants to do her own thing and not be tied down but while i was doing all that **** for her she was tellin me she loved me, she would never leave me and it jus seemed like she was in love too. i dont know what to do and i was hopin someone could give me some advice? thank uHow to deal with breaking up wit someone you love?
You have to kind of look to the bright side. In this case, aren't you glad you found out sooner rather than later? It won't make it hurt any less, but what you have to look for is something to help you accept the way it turned out.
Relationships are just plain hard and to be honest, more hurtful sometimes than it's worth. It takes both people putting everything they have into making it work, and particularly when you know that you have did everything you can, it just isn't enough if the other person can't or won't.
Always do everything you can to treat the other person with respect, kindness, and love. If it doesn't work out, you'll at least be able to look at yourself in the mirror. It's more than what you can say for your girlfriend.
Good luck. I hope everything works out the best for you.
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