How can you get over a break up with someone that you loved so much after they broke your heart?

I want to know for future referencesHow can you get over a break up with someone that you loved so much after they broke your heart?
The only person who ever broke my heart ... Is now my husband ( of 8 years)... but you can get over it if you allow yourself to.How can you get over a break up with someone that you loved so much after they broke your heart?
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