My relationship with my girlfriend has been a but rubbish recently, we've had a few arguments and shes been screaming down the phone, accusing me of cheating on her and flirting with other people (I haven't). I want to end this but shes made her parents turn against her and am now worried she will do something stupid.
I love her to bits but it's clearly not working and I don't need the stress or the ear ache off the arguments.
What do I do? Please no stupid answers, and respect me please.
ThanksHow to break up with someone you love?
if u really love her, find a way to make it work. prove to her that ur not cheatingHow to break up with someone you love?
If you love her, then is it really worth leaving her straight off?
Love is a precious thing and shouldn't be taken for granted; it's not easy to come by.
You need a serious talk with this girl, tell her the score, and if you can't both start getting on better than you have been recently, you'll have no option but to call it off. Maybe this talk will give her a chance to share an underlying problem she has that you're unaware of.
Assure her that you haven't cheated on her and tell her how much it hurts you that she accuses you of this.
Make sure she knows she's loved, but you can't keep yourself in an unhappy relationship if she's not prepared to keep the peace.
It really needs to end, and I am a girl and when we act that way, we want out or we are stressed with other issues, so we take it out on guys thinking they will never leave. Try to calm her down one time and talk to her, dont end it suddenly if you still want to be friends with her, give her hints or tell your not sure how the relationship is going to turn out. If you do suddenly break it off there is no hope of being friends, you can also say that you think you both should just put it on pause for a while. Stay apart and dont talk to each other for may a few days, then give it a chance and see how things are. Hope I helped :)
well you either tell her straight, but you must be there, not over the phone or internet, like in the same room, this way she knows where you stand, and give her the reasons why your breaking up with her, so later on she cant say like, you broke up with me for no reason, or you could do the alternative and try sorting your relatuionship out ? where i suggest you just get you and her togther and agree that no cheating was involved, cos you didnt and she thought you did, just forget it and see how the relationship works out ya know ? hope this helps
Tell the girlfriend that over these recent months we haven't been getting along and it is getting progressively worse. I am being accused of doing things that I have not done. For some reason we no longer have trust and I don't want to be in a relationship with you any longer.
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Tell her to get counseling and shape up or your done.
Don't answer her calls for a few days and then send her a long email explaining how you feel about this relationship. It's apparent that while you still love her, this relationship is toxic to both of you, it's time to call it quits.
firslty you need to speak to her face to face! explain to her your feelings and say that she is not making you happy with her accusations and shouting! it wont be easy for either if you but if its something you fel you need to do then you have to do it for both your sakes!
Respectfully there is no easy way to break up with someone you love because it is a myth. if you love someone then breaking up wouldnt be in your mind. However, telling her like a man to her face and trying to leave her with some stability is the best way to go
Well tell her your worried about her anf love her and all that but you dont know if u can handle being with her anymore make sure you tell her the truth and be polite
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Listen me and my man always argue i think its normal..
If you really love each other you will work it out....
Hope this helps....
I wouldn't break up with someone I loved!
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