Monday, August 16, 2010

How do u break up with someone who is in love with u?

my bf really loves me. and i did love him once, but i have lost that love i think. and i dont know how to break up with him. i dont know. please help. thank you for ur answersHow do u break up with someone who is in love with u?
just tell him the truth theres no point in stringing him along theres no easy way to do itHow do u break up with someone who is in love with u?
ouch, that situation even hurts me, but i do have some advice


1. be gentle, i know that one is obvious, but bear with me


2. be firm, let him know that it really is over


3. do not place any blame for the situation, on either him or you


4. make the break-up about you, you are just not getting what you want, it is not anything he did wrong


5. get it done quickly, any delays makes it harder for both of you


6. do this in a semi-public place, less drama


7. wear nice clothes, but nothing sexy or romantic


8. leave immediately after you break the news, less drama and less doubt that it is over.





this is very unpleasant business, i commend you for wanting to spare his feelings, there is a video on u-tube that may be helpful about how to break up, and here other websites which may be helpful:


www.wikihow.com/Break-Up


www.mahalo.com/How_to_Break_Up_with_So鈥?br>

dating-advice.suite101.com/article.cfm鈥?br>




i hope my advice is helpful, or that one of these websites is
Here is a great article on how to tactfully break up with someone without breaking their heart:





http://www.bukisa.com/articles/46397_how鈥?/a>
tell him just that.





that your not feeling the same way anymore.


%26amp;%26amp; that being apart right now, is what you need to sort out your feeling.





be completely honest with him.


good luck(:
I'm in the same position. Hit me up if you get any answers.
you tell him face to face the whole story and hope he doesn't do something stupid like trying to kill him self

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