How can you love someone so much, break up with them and completely erase them out of ur life, just like that?

My girlfriend said that if we ever break up, she is going to have to take me out of her life. I just can't do that. If we ever do break up, I still want her in my life. I can't take her out, it would be impossible. I get that she needs to get over me, but can't we just be friends, come on now.How can you love someone so much, break up with them and completely erase them out of ur life, just like that?
A clean break is more healthy in the long run even though it hurts more at the time. It is good to get the grieving process over with so you can have closure and get on with your life.





If you were to continue to have her in your life, you would always have hope that you would get back back together slowing down the healing process and preventing you from being free to love again.How can you love someone so much, break up with them and completely erase them out of ur life, just like that?
As much as it sucks, you can never really be friends with an ex. If she loves you like you love her, it would be impossible for her to get over you if she is always around you. You could try to end it and split for awhile then after you have both had time away you could try being friends again. Hopefully it never comes down to that!!!
hey there believe me its better if you dnt even talk to her if you guys break up.because you will just get hurt over and over again.
No, not for people who have to protect their mental health. I use to love a man very much~~I felt wonderful about myself when with him. He cheated on me and it took me 4 years to just speak to him and I HAD to then, not because I wanted to. HIS MOM DIED.





Not everyone can be with someone they have lost, been dumped by, been disrespected by in a social setting. It is hard to go from a wife to a gf~~so to speak.