Please help. how do u break up with someone you love so much...? i cant seem to do it.?

Everytime we talk now, I feel so fed up. All I want to do it B*tch and argue, because I really cannot trust my boyfriend. Im so tired of his full plate, and his busy life, and his cocky attitude. We have been together only a year, but we have both grown to love eachother sooo much. I really dont like seeing me without him, I can actually picture my marrying him, if he changed of course. But I dont see him changing. And he says if I leave him, thats that. No communication. That breaks my heart to hear him say that. But his excuse is, ';it will be too heard for us to communicate';. Idk what to do. How to do it. But I have the gut feeling I need to. I wana do it tonight. I cant pull myself together and do it though. any stories? Any advice on what to say? How can I prepare myself? I know I sound so needy, but Im scared to leave him. How do you make yourself ready, smart, and strong? Please. Thank you.Please help. how do u break up with someone you love so much...? i cant seem to do it.?
Yes.





Here is some advice, people cannot change people most of the time. No one can change me unless I allow them to, and no one can change you either. The best thing to do is tell him that it is over and accept that.





Take some time to mourn, (however long you need) and then close your eyes. See, your mind is like a DVD player, and it can play over the same events which make you sad. But here is something that you can try...





Remember the time when you broke up with him and how sad it felt, and how heartbroken you were. Then.... Remember a time when you felt your best, if you don't have something then make it up. Now, when you take those feelings place them over the old feelings. Picture someone who loves you, sweeping you off your feet and the sad feelings and busy schedule over... wouldn't that be nice?





Just prepare, accept, and move on. Hard but the truest advice that anyone can give.Please help. how do u break up with someone you love so much...? i cant seem to do it.?
if you really love him, you'd be willing to work through the struggles.





if you see yourself marrying him, then i'd say it sounds like you too need to have a real conversation


don't argue, don't fight. sit down and talk. and if you can't come to an agreement and work somehting out, then yeah i'd say end it. as hard as it may be.


but def talk to him first.