Friday, August 20, 2010

How do you deal with breaking up with someone you love after being together for almost 2 years?

I still have feelings for her and it kills me inside. I just want to get over her and I don't know how because I think about her every day and night.How do you deal with breaking up with someone you love after being together for almost 2 years?
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Unfortunately, time is what heals these wounds... And it could take alot of time.... Try your best not to dwell on her and the good memories... Yes, you've experienced love and all the gifts that can come with it.. But if it's over, you are just beating yourself up emotionally day after day after day.


You know you won't forget her, and she will not forget you... But Life is a long and eventful journey and ultimately it ENDS at some point... You will love again..How do you deal with breaking up with someone you love after being together for almost 2 years?
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Simple. You deal with it. Take it from me, I loved a guy for 3yrs (first love). Don't wallow in your sorrow. Keep your mind busy with other things. Try to not think of her as much. It will be hard to do because everything will remind you of her but try. Time will dull the memory of her. One day when you think of her it will be only objectively.





Remember time heal all wounds
it will take a long time you can think of all the bad times you had with her that may help or see if you 2 can sit down and talk it out and get back true love is hard to find so go for it good luck to you
There's no quick fix to this situation. You're going to have to simply endure the long days and give it time. Even though you're feelings for her will more than likely take a long time to fade away, I suggest you 'get back out there' as you might find someone that makes you forget her name.
Yep, keep busy and widen your mind. The world is big with a lot to experience. Lovers come and go, look forward to what is next in your life.
keep yourself as busy as possible
IF YOU'VE BEEN WITH HER FOR 2 YEARS AND YOU STILL LOVE HER, THEN MAYBE IT'S WORTH ANOTHER SHOT AT YOU ALL BEING TOGETHER.
think of it as if your best friend left. it is life. life is not fair. just get it over with. maybe she'll come back someday.?!


who knows?
Time.
Yes ';time';..unfortunately that old saying ';time heals all wounds'; is true, annoying but true. Keeping busy, no matter what...work, watching movies or shows that uplift your mood, spending time with friends, walking...anything that takes your mind off of her. Even some counseling tp help you deal with how you are feeling...just so long as you are not alone and allowing yourself to brood and become depressed.
It is so hard breaking up with someone you love but I assure you if you just give someone else a chance to help mend your broken heart time does heal all wounds including heart ache. I'm speaking from experience. You are going to find someone so great you just have to be patient and do things that will keep your mind off of her.
This may not be for you, but I went out drinking and having sex with every woman I could. I got over my ex fairly quick.
Keep yourself very busy. Go out with friends, join a gym, take up a hobby, volunteer, do anything to occupy your mind.
have a cup of tea
time, time and a bit more time
dont expect to get over it over night. you'll probably feel this way for a while and that is normal.
You're a bit short on info....what caused the breakup if you love her so......
keep yourself busy and focus on yourself. good luck.
move on hun
its hurts, I know ,it will take time stay busy,try to meet someone


else and dont try to be friends with your ex it will only make it worse
Suck it up and move on,





It might take some time but you should just suck it up and move on life goes on and so should you.
like this '; we are done.. take your stuff and leave!! by the way its not you its me!';








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By feeling in your own is the best medicine for out come of this type emotion .and time it self is the medicine.
just let go...


try to go out with some other friend's


keep u're self busy...





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