Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How to break up with someone you love?

Ok, so I love someone a lot. But I really just feel that it's time for me to move on, because she does things I just absolutely hate, and we've talked and she won't stop for me. I am worried though that maybe later on in life I'm going to regret this (breaking up). I really don't know what to do.





Any advice?How to break up with someone you love?
If she's not willing to change these things for you, she probably doesn't love you as much as you love her. Just tell her how you feel and tell her that it's not gonna work out anymore... or maybe you could try changing for her. You might have to deal with these things in order to be with her. This is a tricky situation, but if you feel like you can't handle these things she does it's probably best if the 2 of you aren't together. You'll find someone perfect for you.. just give it time.





good luck =]How to break up with someone you love?
Well if you've talked about it and she won't stop, then you just have to decide whether your ';love'; for her is more important than these things she's doing...
No matter who you are with, there will be things that drive you nuts. Is it something you can learn to accept, or not? That is the real question. A lot of times, something that drives you crazy is telling you something about yourself. Get real quiet and look inside yourself and see if you can find out why this thing bugs you so much. Is it a trait you have that you don't like about yourself? Is it a difference in style between you and her? Is her behavior different from the way you were raised and believe to be right? Are you willing to look at a different ';right';? If you can't accept who she is and she is not open to changing, then you will do both of you a favor by moving on. Breaking up is SO HARD. But living a life with someone that is fundamentally incompatible is even harder.





No matter what you chose to do, be open to the lessons here or the same thing will come up over and over in this relationship or will show up in future relationships. And no matter what you choose, throw yourself fully into the choice and don't look back.





Wishing you love and luck...
if you love her, dont break up. have YOU ever considered changing for HER?
if you really like her then try to fix your problems with her
you dont have to break up yet, have a serious talk with her about the things you like and the things you dont if she doesnt take you seriously or she listens but still does it break up with her. talking to her might help rescue your relationship. if she doesnt respect you enough then she isnt that person for you

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