Have you ever been absolutely and totally in love with someone,then they break up,then they want you back?

Can you imagine feeling total love or amor for someone? Somewhat like they could never do wrong, and your heart is just overflowing with love and admiration for them, and you are so happy with that person? And then the un- thinkable happens and they take all that away from you...they break up...and all you can think about is that person, and how you wish you still had her, and wish they never would have broken your heart to begin with...having love/ hate feelings for that person over and over...slowly getting over it, letting the pain go, letting them go...and then just when you feel like it is ALL gone...She comes back, and wants to start anew like nothing has changed. i feel i have absolutely nothing to give now...like i am numb...and why should i give it all again, just to have it all go away again...(more than likely it will)..i just wondered what anyone else's advice might be in this situation. i honestly feel i have nothing left to give, but it would not take much for my heart to be right back where it was to begin with...i am not sure what i need to do here..Have you ever been absolutely and totally in love with someone,then they break up,then they want you back?
no, i hope he rots in a gutterHave you ever been absolutely and totally in love with someone,then they break up,then they want you back?
im not trying to sound like a jerk, but he might have dumped you because you were too in love with him. i know yu cant change that, but just try your very best at every single moment to not give him ANY clue that you are in love. in fact, if you can make him think that you are losing interest, he will be the one feeling these feelings for you instead. remember. life is a tango. you take 2 steps back now.
relation-ships are not a game to end it and start over without any reasons.


she is very selfish to breakup in the first place and now all the sudden she want you back!


you are not a toy in her hand so just tell her i don't fell anything any more for you and go on with your life, there is much more nice ppl out there.





good luck.
dont waste your time on someone who is going to hurt you like that and come back as if they didnt do anything. You deserve better. There is no point in being with someone if they are going to abandon you, they might even do it again. and that would suck emotionally to go through that again.
dont get back with her


cos if she really loved you, she wouldnt hav left you in the first place





shes now probably lonely and wants someone...but when she finds someone else, she wont need you and......yeah.....





it happens all the time








btw u should write a song
get back with her you have nothing to lose she dosent want to suffer the rest of her life living without you give her a second chance she lived without you for awhile and cant stand being without you anymore thats why she wants you back
Don't effin do it! They pry wanted to mess around with out feelin guilty and will most likely do it again. and again. and again...
That has happened to me. But by that time, I had moved on. It's not worth it. Don't let her mess with you like that. She doesn't deserve it.
okay, wat they're trying to do is to see if they can live life without u and if they can't then they want to get back together. u know at least thats the way they want to live life.
that's called a on-again-off-again relationship
hes likely to break your heart again
yup and DO NOT go back to them unless you want drama in your life. You know the saying, '; you gave up something good';
i love this lesbo love lickin the chucha
Sounds like Twilights New Moon!
yep, happened to me.. DO NOT GO BACK TO THEM.


I promise you it'll just hurt more, and you never get that closure.
nope
yes..blah
are u a lesb?
i would prefer if i could find out if you are male or female .. i really cant know ...


anyway let me tell you something.. you have to first look at the reason how you broke up.. what was the reason .. cheated on .. or simply get bored after a long relation or what exactly happens...


if there was no cheating then yes .. i would concider giving another chance ... if you love that person .. you can give another chance ...you might get hurt again .. and you might get a stronger relation ship.. this oftenly happens when you two youngs pple fall in love together in theri early ages.. and after a while of being together .. they feel like they need to more discover the world .. they get seprated .. and after they find out that this was the real love and they need it back ... in this case the get closer because they knew how much they love each others in the period when they were not toghether .. and they are not ready to go through that again ...if this is somehow your case... then yes give another chance ... and dont say you have nothing to give .. your partner will know how to turn you on again .. it will only need a little time for you to get over what happened in the past ..


good luck ... somethings deserve the risk...
yea ex's always seem to come back into our lives once were doing better without them its just the way life is...when this happened to me i game my ex another chance its been going well and were really happy again we both changed for the better.So its all up to you now what you want to do it just all depends on why you broke up.If you still love her and you broke up for reasons that werent too bad then id say go for it.Its all up to you.
i am madly in love with my bf.....but he says bcoz he became so busy with his work and life he reduced writing to me sms and calls.........i went mad with impatience and tried to breakoff from him.......this trauma led to attempt sucide.......i then decided to believe him and give this relationship another try........that is why i patched up with him again bcoz i loved him deeply and did not want to loose him but he appears to have moved on now and he is just dragging this side.........so i say to you if you have done something plz analyze and talk to her.........maybe she went through the same thing as i did
';slowly getting over it, letting the pain go, letting them go...and then just when you feel like it is ALL gone...She comes back, and wants to start anew like nothing has changed';


The general advice is when you try to reconcile with your ex is that you can not get back someone until you completely let them go. You managed to heal yourself somewhat and you were in the process of erasing them completely from your life,your ex sensed that and now because of that she tries to get back in your life. This is due to one thing: VANITY. Vanity is common to every human being and we want to possess what we can not have. When you were in a relationship she knew she had you in the palm of her hand,you were easy to get. Then you broke up and started getting over it, you weren't easy to get anymore= you became a challenge for her. She became insecure because you didn't want her anymore so she came back. Should you take her back? I don't know.I don't know anything about your relationship or you or your ex so I can not say do this or do that.It is up to you but my advice to you is don't run into her arms. Don't take her back easily otherwise she will dump you again.Remember women like challenge,the harder you are to get the more they will be attracted to you. So go out date other women and talk to your ex occasionally if you want to. Keep a distance between you to.If you want to get her back do so because you truly love her and not because she is your only option. I know in lesbian relationships things move too fast and two women get infatuated with each other.This is very very wrong.The key is to keep the tension in the relationship; show that you love her but don't be so available aka don't be a doormat.