Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do you break up with someone you love?.?

I decide too much effort is required to make the relationship work.And I'm tired. I think its better I'd let him go. How about you?How do you break up with someone you love?.?
it sounds a little selfish. loving someone is about commitment and doing things for that person regardless of how it makes you feel. true love is being commited, not getting tired after you've had your fill. im sorry, but if its just because the thrill is over or whatever...and hes just not giving you that spark anymore, its because you're missing Jesus. love isnt about satisfying your own needs, its about satisfying others needs.





hope it works out for youHow do you break up with someone you love?.?
I think I'm in a pretty similar situation right now. Boyfriend is living with his parents going to a community college and I'm an hour away going to a university. I'm tired of having someone to constantly consider in all my decisions that I don't get to see and I can't see more because of conflicting schedules.





Sorry, I can't actually give you any advice... But you aren't alone in the situation.
You just have to be honest and know that he isn't going to be on board. That's how it goes. The one who wants to leave is ready but doesn't want to hurt the other and the other is surprised and tries to find a way to allow the relationship to go on. It's tough because you have to be mean and cold and if you try to be nice they think there is a possibility that it will last. I wish you luck and if anything it's a learning experience. Best of luck.
I am in the same boat. When the effort is one-sided, there needs to be changes made. Learn to love yourself more than you think you love him. You need to take care of you! He won't be the one to take care of you. If he was, you wouldn't be asking this question, right?
maybe you just need a break , a pause that is .... lots of long distance relationships work like that ..if you are living together that's another kettle of fish ...be sure to explore your other options before you do anything if you don't know what the reaction will be ( another place to live , your safety , your belongings/valueables..., your other romantic love interests if any) .. If you know any couples who seem in synch , ask them ( or one of them ) how they do it.
Try harder. All relationships are hard work. If you love him then you're going to have to work on it everyday and it's going to be really hard but it should be worth it. That is, if you really love him.
if you really love them, try taking a break first. what is causing it not to work?? i would try talking first rather than just dumping. if you love someone so much, you will try and make it work.
well seeing as i've never met you or your significant other and know next to nothing about the situation i say stay with him
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