Would you break up with someone you love if you start to have feelings for someone else?

i am starting to like this other boy that goes to my church. I like him, my mom like him and he is a nice respectable person and me and him are both 17. Me and him always are flirting. and he tells me how much he wants to be with and and he said he liked me even before me and my bf got together but he was to shy to say anything.





On the other hand I am in love with my boyfriend but my mom dosent like that fact that he is 21. He gives me everything and he is just always there for me(one of the few people that can put up with my terrible mood swings). I even tried to break it off with him once and he cried for like 4 days and had his family calling me to tell me to please give him another chance, i got back with him(they say they never seen him care that much about a girl or cry over one).





my bf and i have been together for a year and 3 monthsWould you break up with someone you love if you start to have feelings for someone else?
Feelings are just feelings! They come and go away! Go with the one who you love! Not who you like!Would you break up with someone you love if you start to have feelings for someone else?
His family called you to tell you that this 21 year old Man was crying....Got a problem with that dear. He sounds very clingy and stalkerish. Be very careful.





Now on to this other guy issue...Be his friend for now, and when stalker man shows his true colors and causes you to distance yourself from him forever, your good friend will be there to pick up the pieces.
you are allowed to be happy





do whatever makes you happy
this just goes back to that saying


';never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like wil leave you for the one they love.';





good luck
first off i would like to say, if you broke up with your boyfriend for a reason and his family put you on a guilt trip to get back with him. break ups hurt and we all have to go through them and it shouldnt be an exception just because hes sad. your in a relationship with him not his family. they dont know what your feeling and why you broke up with him. belive me girl i was in the same situation, me and my neighbor had the biggest crushes on each other and i had a boyfriend that i was hesitant on breaking up with because i didnt want to hurt him but we got in a fight and he ended up breaking up with me, so that was that, then i started talking to my neighbor and me and him have been together since. you cant have sympathy when breaking up. of course your gonna feel bad, but it happens. yes he may care for you and yes hes never cried over a girl, but are you really truely happy? if your having feelings for another boy then your current boyfriend isnt really doing the job.


if you feel like this church boy is worth it, then go for it, if you think its going to work out then go for it. i did and now ive never been happier. good luck :)
whatevs makes u happy