How to break up with someone you love so much?

I need to break up with my bf, as you can read from my previous questions, it has been rather challenging. I love him so much but i know that it would be better for us to go separate ways. he will not break up with me that's for sure, he is still planning our holidays so i know he is not getting my message at all. what do i do now? i can't just leave him, the thought of not seeing him again, all these times we spent togetherm he has got so much stuff ta my house as well.. i don't know how to do this at allHow to break up with someone you love so much?
Love can be very confusing. It makes you question yourself that if you love someone so much, you should still be with them. That is not always the case- you even said yourself that it's not working.


The fact that you realise yourself it would be better for both of you is a good start, and you need to take a look at your relationship as something that you can package up and put away as a good memory.





Breaking up with someone like this can be difficult, I know the feeling,but you have to do it. Before you do it, prepare yourself mentally- it is quite often that when you see your partner again at that point that you feel love and longing for them, but just think if you end up back together, the same feelings will come back again.





Life moves on and so does relationships. Although you may feel he is the only one for you, there are other people out there, and it is normal and natural to be with a few people before you settle down with the right person. You have to be strong and do it for yourself. Although you have strong feelings for him, do you think that by splitting up that in the long term, you will be a much happier person? If the answer is yes, then maybe you just have to bite the bullet and do it.





A lot of people are scared of breaking up because they don't know how they will cope without their partner. To begin with it is tough, but time is a great healer, and you will learn how move on with your life.





You know, you will always love him, because you have shared experiences and great times together, but there are plenty more to be shared. Be simple and to the point. Tell him exactly how you feel and accept that you have done the right thing for you and him.





Good luckHow to break up with someone you love so much?
dont break up if u love him and if he loves u.


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i think that if u love him as much as u say you should stay with him..or maybe just talk it out with him...if things dont go well...thats a sign..but if they do then ur ment to be with him...truth and time tells all...
if u love him u wont break up with him