How would you break up with someone you love and doesnt want to hurt his?her feelings...?

how would you break up with someone you love and doesnt want to hurt his feelings... and you wanna leave him becoz u also love sum1 else... but u don't wanna hurt him...How would you break up with someone you love and doesnt want to hurt his?her feelings...?
I know how you feel and it is the hardest situation but for all three of use i think you should take some time and really think about what you want tell both guy you need time to your self to think so you can be on your own and think to your self what you really want because you dont want to wake up one day regreting your choice.





But if your 100% sure you have to break it to him and dont beat around the bush with it be strait out and honest but when it comes to the other guy dont rush into it take it slow because you will need time either way if you break up with one guy and go with the other your still in love with two guys.





Maybe you should be on your own for a while and figuer out your priorities and what you want 100%


Like i said life isnt worth having regretsHow would you break up with someone you love and doesnt want to hurt his?her feelings...?
Blame your parents.... tell him you love him, but your parents don't think he's good enough... he'll still be mad but not at you. Then tell him it's over, but you wish it wasn't. But you have to stop seeing him or your Dad will kill the both of you, and you would hate for anything to happen to him... because your dad is crazy, and you're not really sure what he is capable of doing.... scare him





Or tell him you're pregnant, and he'll probably vanish before you can say another word.... and then you're free
i would jsut be honest with them. i would say:





';so, i need you to know that i really care about you and your feelings and that's why i need to tell you the truth. i have met someone else and even though i have never cheated on you, i feel like i need to explore things with this other person. i wanted you to know the truth so maybe it will help you move on from this relationship. please don't hate me. i understand if you don't like me very much right now, but i'm just trying to do the right thing. i don't want to hurt you, but i realize that i probably have. i'm sorry.';





the end.
You have to say sometihng like, 'Um, [his/her name], I can't be with you anymore, cuz I sort of am in love with someone else, I'm so, so, sorry!!!'
make him fall in love with another girl that way you both can get on to your lives.





hope this helps ^_^
you cant...you can be honest and sincere, but the fact is if you are in love, its going to hurt to break that off.
you cant


the sad fact is


when breaking up someone always gets hurt


it sucks i know


but you cant help it if he gets hurt


but you can try to be as nice and friendly when you break up with him and after you do.


:)
Theres no way to avoid it. If you're serious about breaking up with him, do it like a bandaid, quick. Dont be a ***** about it and just let him do what he needs to do.