How do you break up with someone you love alot?

i love my bf and we have been dating for 1 yr but it seems like he doesnt want the same things in life as me, so you know how girls are, we like to know what the future plans are or we have to break it off cuz we feel we are wasting our time, but i always felt he was the one for me and he is really good to me, treats me so good, every other guy i ever dated was abusive or cheated, so i dont know what to do, its not like he wants to break up, he just doesnt want to talk about marriage or he thinks moving in together is too soon for that....so what do i do?How do you break up with someone you love alot?
Maybe you should reconsider the things you want. Sounds like the guy is smart and doesn't want to rush things.





I think it takes 2-3 years to know if something is going to work or not.How do you break up with someone you love alot?
It's better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all. Maybe you should just ask him what he wants? Being blunt is sometimes the best solution to a problem......If that doesn't work, sleep with is brother :)
Give it a few more months....then talk to him again....if he doesn't feel the same....find another dude. Some men just hate commitment....it means no sex with other females and that scares them.....guys like to play the field abit more then us nice women....all the best!
Try expressing your concerns to him. If you're young, don't worry about it...give it time.
dont do it! sometimes love is about compromise and you never know your ways might rub off on him