Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do you break up with someone you love?

I really love my boyfriend and he really loves me. I've told him already that I was in no place to make him happy. I have depression. He won't be able to cope much longer I guess.





I just need to tell him it's what's best for him because I'm mentally unstable. I guess that's the best way to put it.





He keeps telling me no though. And it's so hard for me to fight him because I selfishly deep down do not want to break up with him, but I look at it this way it's better for him. What do I say?How do you break up with someone you love?
Ask yourself this: What do *I* want?





Don't try and satisfy everyone around you. Your boyfriend should love you whether you're depressed or not. Either way, you're always YOU. Sure, you're going through some tough times, but leaving him will cause you more problems and also regret.





I would advise you to stay with him. He's also emotional support.How do you break up with someone you love?
my advice? dont break up with him because ';you think its best for him';. usually, this ends in regret. do what you feel is right and best for YOU. he can handle himself, im sure he's a big boy. he will end up feeling resentment towards you for ending it based on what you THINK he needs.


but if you INSIST, you just have to be completely 100% honest. make sure he knows you still love and care for him.


good luck :)
just dont brake up with him if you really love, him, if he sais that he will put up with it hey let him try... may be he will make it happen.

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